TOTW: #BeKind

The internet has made people brave and has allowed people to act without consequences and it can’t continue, this includes the media and the British press. “Be kind” is an expression circulating on the internet in the wake of Caroline Flack’s death. But just remember that you do not have to be kind all the time, you don’t have to like everyone, you just don’t have to share your opinions all of the time. We have lost the ability to hold back and keep our opinions to ourselves.

Illustration by Natalie Hapeshi

Abuse and constant criticism should not be seen as a prerequisite to being a celebrity, or working in the entertainment industry, or having an online presence, or for just trying to live your life. If you agree with the sentiment that things need to change, and are feeling angry and upset over the unnecessary and tragic death of Caroline Flack then consider signing this petition titled Caroline’s Law. The petition aims to make it a criminal offence for the British media to “knowingly and relentlessly bully a person, whether they be in the public eye or not, up to the point that they take their own life.” At the time of writing this petition has received 734,755 of the required 800,000 signatures – so you could really make a difference by signing.

If you are yourself struggling with your mental health and you need someone to talk to then remember that The Samaritans are available to talk to for free at any time of the day or night on 116 123, or if you prefer you can email them at jo@samaritans.org

Words by Mollie Kate Cohen